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Winter Reset Aesthetic

We are halfway into 2026 and the winter weather is taking its toll on the country right now. January is the beginning of a new year, and as many people are starting new routines, goals, or resolutions. It is a good time to reset and start the new year with a clean slate. That could also be resetting your space to create a mood of renewal and refresh as you start the new year.

I have been looking more into aesthetics because they can help create a mood, but being more mindful and intentional about whatever aesthetic or mood you want to create. So I found some ideas for creating a winter reset aesthetic. Some ways to do a reset during this winter season and start fresh.

  1. Create a new morning routine

    Keep a journal by your bed and write down five things you want to accomplish today. For me, writing things down is manifesting to me. Start your day with a little positivity and manifestation.
  2. Create a cozy space in your home

    Create a cozy nook somewhere in your home. Having a dedicated space to sit and reflect, journal, or be creative can help clear your mind.
  3. Declutter and organize your space

    Having an organized space can help increase your comfort and also helps declutter your mind as well. Take time to clear up those bills and papers that have accumulated over the past few months, and create a clear space for yourself. It also could help spark some new ideas and creativity.
  4. Create an evening routine

    Start a new evening routine that helps reset your mental state, release the stress of the day, and will ease you into a more comfortable state. Maybe put your phone down and spend five minutes winding down from the day. Try a cup of tea or write down 3 things you are grateful for from the day.
  5. Be intentional and deliberate about what you need for your peace: self care

    Write down your thoughts. Create a routine for the season that protects your mindset and well-being. Write a list of intentional tasks and daily tasks that help honor those feelings.

    I created a board of some winter aesthetics, but try some of these ideas and let me know how they work for you and make you feel.

    Also, here’s something I found interesting. I have been living intentionally lately. This year, my words for the year are deliberate and expand. This concept of seasonal living by Escape the Busy intrigued me. Let me know your thoughts.

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    Tuesday Tunes | Winter Reset

    The holidays have passed and now winter is setting in. The air is colder and snow and bitter temperatures are now here. Enjoy this playlist to start the year in peace and reset to make 2026 prosperous and successful.

    Winter Reset
    “Take me Back” – Tom Misch
    “Be Still” – Snarky Puppy, Becca Stevens, Vasen
    “We Were Young” – Petit Biscuit, JP Cooper
    “There’s No You” – lovetempo
    “Out of My Mind” – Moonchild
    “Poeira Cosmica” – BADBADNOTGOOD, Tim Bernardes
    “Surfin’ the Web” – 90s Child Actor
    “Snow Bowl” – Clap Cotton, Smuv
    “Frozen Firs” – goosetaf, xander., anbuu
    “For Tina” – Zo!
    “Zephyr” – invention_, ODYSSEE
    “Beyond the Sea (La Mer)” – Django Reinhardt, Quintette du Hot Club de France, Stephane Grappelli
    “Half Past Three” – Ruston Kelly
    “Midnight Snack” – HOMESHAKE
    “Come Home O’Shawn” – (((O)))
    “Melt Into Mind” – CRUISE CTRL
    “Kindergarten” – Nagini
    “One Way Ticket” – Carrie Underwood
    “Black Elk Peak” – Nu Deco Ensemble
    “Sunday” – Ghost Beats

    Check out the playlist here.

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    Holiday decor | minimal + maximal

    The holidays are upon us and the decorations should be hung by now. There are many decorating styles, but I like extremes. Being a lover of all things Christmas, I wanted to see some inspiration from a minimal and maximum design style. I created a #Pinterest board with some ideas for both. Do you have a decorating style or theme for the holidays? Let me know what your design style is and if you have a theme for the holidays.

    Happy Holidays!!

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    Back in the Saddle (well, Cushion)

    This is a different approach here. I will continue making playlists, but I wanted to use this for what it was meant to be. I have been taking care of others and stopped doing what I truly love and is a passion I have had for years. Now is the time to do the work, so here’s a new approach to my creative side and talents.

    A friend was selling stuff from his home goods shop he had some years ago here in Detroit. I loved all his stuff from his shop, but one day this summer he put out some left over fabric for sale. I couldn’t resist taking a look. I found these three rolls of fabric and bought them immediately! I am going to get back to using my creative gifts and making pillow covers again. I may throw in a throw (see what I did there??) or two as well. I’m excited to get back to releasing my creativity again. So be on the look out for some pillows and other home decor items in the near future.

    Here is a look at what I’ve done in the past. I enjoy creating, so I am taking the step to get back to doing something I really enjoy doing and not doubt my capabilities. Stay tuned!

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    Slow Fall!

    The fall season has begun, but the weather is still in summer mode in my area. Fall being my favorite season, I am trying to be patient for the changes in the weather since the cold weather season lasts longer here in Michigan. So I’m not trying to rush cold weather, but I am excited for sweater weather and cozy meals. This week’s list comes from a place of expectation and calm. Protecting my peace has been my main focus lately, and music helps keep my mood calm and in a great head space.

    Since the summer weather is still holding on, but fall on the horizon, this week’s list kind of fits both seasonal moods well.

    Slow Fall | 9.30.25

    “Ottolenghi” – Loyle Carner, Jordan Rakei
    “Kyiv” – Tom Misch, Yussef Dayes
    “New Beat” – Toro y Moi
    “Bad Habit” – Steve Lacy
    “Guess It’s All Over” – Mndsgn
    “Be Encouraged” – Kiefer
    “Make it Better” – Anderson.Paak feat. Smokey Robinson
    “Zodiac Shit” – Flying Lotus
    “Vintage Vibe” – The Cashmere Collective
    “Take Care of You” – Charlotte Day Wilson feat. Syd
    “Sincerity is Scary” – The 1975
    “On My Mind” – Jimmy feat. Jason Gaffner
    “Spring Episode” – Jean Luc Ponty
    “Sunset Lover” – Petit Biscuit
    “In My Car” – Gold Panda
    “Here Comes the Sun” – The Beatles
    “Seasons Change” – Expose
    “Do it Again” – Steely Dan
    “I Just Wanna Stop” – Gino Vannelli
    “Eyesdown” Bonobo, Andreya Triana
    “Merry Go Round” – The Equatics
    “Love Affair in Kyoto” – sadtoi
    “The Sweetest Taboo” – Sade
    “Is That Enough” – Marvin Gaye
    “Turned Away” – Chuckii Booker

    Hope you enjoy! Let me know your thoughts. Here is the link to the playlist.

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    Autumn Chill | 9.23.25

    Fall is my favorite season! Now that it is finally fall, I can’t wait for the cooler weather, sweaters, and soups. There’s something calming about the crisp mornings and evenings, and the temperate days here in Michigan. Great time for reflection, sitting still, and preparing for the upcoming winter months. Since we started gardening this year, we are looking forward to setting up our garden for fall planting and prepping the beds/pots for next season.

    Autumn Chill
    “Tell Me What I Gotta Do” – Al Jarreau
    “New Day for You” – Basia
    “Outlier” – Bonobo
    “Fall” – Blooms
    “Hide (Oh Wonder Flip)” – Burn Water
    “Over U” – Stwo
    “Water – FKJ Remix” – Little Dragon, FKJ
    “Borderline – Blood Orange Remix” – Tame Impala, Blood Orange
    “Tidal Wave” – Tom Misch, Yussef Dayes
    “No Less” – SG Lewis, Louis Mattrs
    “Shofukan” – Snarky Puppy
    “Sem Contencao” – Bebel Gilberto
    “Bullet Proof Soul” – Sade
    “Lil’ Red Boat” – Angel Grant
    “Soft” – Lemon Jelly
    “Come With Me” – Tania Maria
    “Homebase” – Dzihan & Kamien
    “In Space” – Royksopp
    “Swank” – Dwele feat. Monica Blaire
    “Grazin’ in the Grass” – Rick Braun, Boney James
    “Coming to Life” – Michael Franks
    “Ariana” – Spyro Gyra
    “Music and Wine” – Blue Six
    “Warrior” – Andy Caldwell
    “Marta’s Song” – Deep Forest feat. Marta Sebestyein
    “Dancing on Glass” – St. Lucia
    “The Captain of Her Heart” – Double
    “Long Time – Cabu Remix” – Wild Rivers, Cabu
    Getto Walkin'” – Miles Davis, Robert Glasper, Bilal
    “Bohemian Ballet” Deep Forest

    I created this calm and chill playlist to help ease into the new season. I hope you enjoy it! Let me know what you think. Here’s the link.

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    Joyful!

    Life has been chaotic the past five years, for everyone that is. One thing I have learned over these years is that life is also too short to settle. I gained so many wins and blessings, that life started to seem better. I felt lighter and happy in general. I let go of a lot of things I had no control over, so I took control of what I could…me. I started to attract things and people with similar mindsets and energy. I am in such a better place and now I want to celebrate joy any chance I get.

    I was in a workshop and the topic of gratitude was the focus. It was mentioned to do something that brings yourself joy, no matter what that looks like, but music came up. So I said that I would make a joy playlist because music always makes me happy. So here it is!!


    Joyful!
    ” Rainy Night in Tokyo” – Michael Franks
    “Room for Happiness” feat. Skylar Grey – Kaskade
    “I Love You” feat. Anesha + Casey Benjamin – Brandon Williams
    “Elevate” – St. Lucia
    “Miles Away” – Kurton Harrison III
    “My Life” – Chanel
    “Cherish the Day” – Sade
    “Dragonball Durag” – Thundercat
    “Warrior” – Andy Caldwell
    “So Nice (Summer Samba)” – Bebel Gilberto
    “Risk Some Soul” feat. LUOMO – Towa Tei
    “If We’re in Love” – Róisín Murphy
    “Happiness” – Billy Lawrence
    “32 Flavors” – Alana Davis
    “The District Sleeps Alone Tonight” – The Postal Service
    “Get Outta My Way” – Kylie Minogue
    “Take Care of You” – Cherokee
    “Detroit Sunrise” feat. Monica Blaire – Dwele
    “Murmuration” – Blue Wednesday, Shopan
    “Hit Me” – Dirty Loops
    “Ain’t it Fun” – Paramore
    “Don’t Disturb this Groove” – The System
    “Fever” feat Elisabeth Troy – B. Traits
    “Overtime” – Knower
    “Water Baby” – Tom Misch, Loyle Carner

    Here’s the link to the playlist: Joyful!

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    Birthday Tunes | 11.4.24

    My birthday was this week and I love celebrating me! My mom always made birthdays a big deal as a kid, so it has just been a thing that stuck with me growing up. I also love music, so what better way to celebrate my big day than to make a playlist of songs that come across my mind often.

    Birthday Tunes
    “Someone in L.A.” – Cherokee, Knight One
    “Hide (Oh Wonder Flip)” – Burn Water
    “Get Outta My Way” – Kylie Minogue
    “Nice Day” – CrazyJaZz, Chill Select
    “Indigo” – Chris Brown
    “SLOW GRIND” – Hi-Five, H-Town
    “Maureen” – Sade
    “Detroit Sunrise” – Dwele, Monica Blaire, Lloyd Dwayne
    “Outlier” – Bonobo
    “Fastlove, Pt.1” – George Michael
    “Tidal Wave” – Tom Misch, Yussef Dayes
    “Is That Enough” – Marvin Gaye
    “Murmuration” – Blue Wednesday, Shopan
    “May I Have This Dance (Remix)” – Francis and the Lights, Chance the Rapper
    “Hit Me” – Dirty Loops
    “My Life” – Chanel
    “Fever” – B. Traits, Elisabeth Troy
    “Say What You Wanted” – Tep No
    “Ain’t if Fun” – Paramore
    “Asking to Break” – James Blake
    “The Sound” – The 1975
    “Don’t Disturb this Groove” – The System

    Although my birthday was November 4, I plan on celebrating the whole month. Enjoying being alive and having the many blessings my life offers. I have family that love me, a partner that supports me, and a wonderful work family that makes going to work fun. I hope you enjoy this list, find the link here. Cheers!

    xo

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    Fall Chill | 10.24.24

    Fall is my favorite season. The crisp sweater weather, the changing leaves, and soups and stews. My boyfriend was making fun of my feet being cold and called me “popsicle toes” and it immediately made me think of Michael Franks’ song of the same name. With the change in the weather and finally turning the heat on, I played “Popsicle Toes” in the car and let the my playlist chose the rest. Here is a wonderful list of some of the songs that followed.

    Fall Chill
    “My Lady” – The Crusaders
    “Rainy Night in Tokyo” – Michael Franks
    “Tell Me What I Gotta Do” – Al Jarreau
    “Water Baby” – Tom Misch, Loyle Carner
    “Seven Years of Good Luck” – Joe Sample
    “Love’s Holiday” – Earth, Wind, & Fire
    “Nautilus” – Bob James
    “Catching the Sun” – Spyro Gyra
    “Lowdown” – Incognito, Mario Biondi, Chaka Khan
    “Across the Sand” – Earl Klugh
    “Black Frost” – Grover Washington Jr.
    “Bahia Funk” – Lee Ritenour
    “Love x Love” – George Benson
    “Take Care of You” – Cherokee
    “Not Rhyme, No Reason” – George Duke
    “Soulful Strut” – Grover Washington Jr.
    “New Day for You” – Basia
    “Angela (Theme from Taxi)” – Bob James
    “Mt. Airy Road” – George Benson, Earl Klugh
    “Tiger in the Rain” – Michael Franks
    “Caravan of Dreams” – Peter White

    I hope you can enjoy this list while cooking a stew, making fall crafts, or decorating for the season. Check out the playlist here.

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    Cleaning Groove | 10.9.24

    When I was growing up, cleaning was a family affair. Most Friday evenings, my mom and I would come home and start cleaning after dinner. Music was always generally playing while we cleaned. Everything from alternative to reggae. As an adult, I listen to music pretty much all day. Even when I am not listening to music, I have various songs in my head at all times. When I’m cleaning, I definitely listen to music, either on a speaker or headphones. One day I was doing a full house clean and the random list I was listening to really had my in a serious groove. There were artists and songs I’d never heard before, and I was really enjoying the flow. I put together a list of songs that stood out, and I hope you enjoy them as well.

    Cleaning Groove | 10.9.24

    “Say What You Wanted” – Tep No
    “Dreaming” – Lucine, Asy Saavedra
    “Nocturne” – CRFT, lightheart, Noé Mina
    “Long Time- Cabu Remix” – Wild Rivers, Cabu
    “Asking to Break” – James Blake
    “Meant to Be” – xander.
    “Won’t be Waiting” – Moses Ideka
    “IN MY MIND SOMETIMES” – ELWD
    “mangata” – Judeline
    “Easy Baby” – Denyah
    “You (1000 Beats Remix)” – 1000 Beats, Elaine Malone
    “Tokyo” – 1000 Beats, Kayleigh Noble
    “NYCBB” – 1000 Beats, Celia Tiab
    “pray for you” – DeCarteret, 1000 Beats
    “Burning Flower” – 1000 Beats, Laura Elizabeth Hughes
    “Satellite in the Black Sky” – Moonspatz
    “Like U got what I need” – Desh, delaney., Noé Mina
    “Dahlia” – Leave, Bezzik
    “About Me” – LEISURE
    “Dream” – Alex Lustig
    “Eyes Closed” – Majid Jordan, Alex Lustig
    “Peaches” – Milk & Bone, Alex Lustig
    “Aura” – Alex Lustig
    “Tobefree” – Inthemeadows
    “Synesthesia” – edapollo
    “Awake” – Alex Lustig
    “In the End” – Alex Lustig, Akacia
    “Fade” – Alex Lustig, Sølv

    There are a lot of songs on this playlist, and I didn’t include them all. So here is the link to the full playlist. Enjoy whether you are cleaning or not.